Graciously Rolling With the Punches

Lately, I feel as I get on in age, different health issues are attacking my being. In October of last year, while I was brushing my teeth, I heard an unusual sound hitting the sink. Much to my chagrin, it was the back part of my front tooth. I went to bed thinking, “Dear God, how much is this going to cost us?” For a week I postponed going to see the prosthodontist; in the meantime, every time I talked, every word ended in a whistle. It was time to make an appointment with the specialist.

The new grill

My front tooth has been an enduring cross for most of my life. My sister Jo was the cause of this injury. I do not recall if she was beating me up or swinging me as a small child. Either way I landed on my face and my front teeth took the brunt of the fall. With one tooth cracked down the middle, it would take years for the other tooth to manifest its injury.

5th grade and my chipped tooth

I was in junior high school when I noticed that my other front tooth had turned to dull shade of gray. I never brought this to the attention of my mother because she was too busy making sure my three older brothers were staying out of trouble. One day I noticed that I had developed an abscess, and finally told my mother. She took me to the worst dentist in Colton. This small-town dentist did the minimum for his patients, and if it had it been anything but my front tooth, he would have extracted it. All my adult dental problems stem from his lack of professional training. His name was either Dr. Van Voorhis or, fittingly, Dr. Pain. I’m sure he is no longer among the living; he has either gone to heaven or perhaps hell. I pray the former. For sure he has made my life a living hell.

This doctor filed down most of my front tooth, and every single dentist and specialist that I have gone to, has remarked on the botched work he did. I have had my front tooth replaced at least five times. I was not going to mess around with a novice dentist, so I made an appointment with one of the best in Orange County, Dr. O’Brien.

I knew it was going to be a great expense, but sometimes we have to make sacrifices. At the first appointment doctor O’Brien fixed my chipped tooth with a composite veneer, and placed a temporary cap on the botched tooth.

I so badly would like to remodel the main bathroom in our home but all that had to be put on hold. I cannot share the cost of the work done on my teeth, but I could have purchased a nice used car.

In the meantime, my temporary tooth had fallen out three times, because I’d forget and use the water pick. It took almost four months to get my tooth right, partly because I was traveling and I missed several appointments.

Taka, the specialist from Japan was making the tooth, and each time I would go in for an appointment for the fitting, Dr. O’Brien would say, that was the color was off. I would hear them discussing my tooth. “It needs more gray, and yellow, and some pink.” I was right there when they were describing the color of my teeth. Finally after a few months of working to get the color perfect, I was scheduled to go Taka’s lab, the Japanese genius. There on 4th Street, in Tustin, California, with bright lights overhead, the perfect porcelain tooth was born.

These doctors are doing what God has called them to do. I love going to their office because there is always a cohesive atmosphere. Dr. O’Brien takes hours to make certain he gets it right. He is never in a rush to get you out because it’s as if he is doing this unto the Lord. When you are doing what God called you to do, you do it with great joy; you look forward to your daily task, because it not only pleases you but also bring a smile to the Lord.

Colossians 3:23-24 New King James Version (NKJV)

23 And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, 24 knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ.

I’m certain that my sister Jo can still beat me up, as she was always the strong girl in our family. I remember in one fight, after sassing my Mom, Jo came after me. I threw our pet cat at her, because I knew that this would allow enough distraction for me to escape the inevitable.

Jo, her sons, Nick, Frank, Rocky, and Torie

Thank God we outgrew our childhood without any serious injuries. All that toughness that my sister developed would later help her raise four boys that grew into fine young men.

I love to smile, and now, thanks to these great specialists, my confidence is restored, and I thank God that they followed their calling!

Romans 11:29 New King James Version (NKJV)

29 For the gifts and the calling of God are irrevocable.

Have you answered your call? I have, I follow Him, His love guides my path.

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Jesus Will You Be My Valentine?

Philippians 4:8 New King James Version (NKJV)

Meditate on These Things

Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. 

This is one of my favorite passages from the Bible. The Apostle Paul wrote this letter to the Philippians while he was in prison in Rome. These are simple instructions on how to grow spiritually with a foundation of love. Paul uses Jesus as the model for humility and selfless love. Paul also uses himself as an example of how to endure through trials and challenges.

Paul’s words are a perfect recipe for living a loving Christian life. He starts with whatever is true. In this world of deception, we must always look for truth. Truth is the first ingredient because we must all operate in truth.

The word truth appears in the Bible approximately 237 times, depending on what Bible you use.

Whatever things are noble. There is no substitute to Christ, this is a lifestyle that Paul is trying to get across. To be noble is to recognize the dignity of being part of God’s creation. To be a child of God is of great nobility. if we do not recognize the nobility of ourselves and others, we are falling short on how to treat others.

But we are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s own people, that you may declare the wonderful deeds of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.” 1 Peter 2:9

 Whatever things are just is relying on your conscience to filter out thoughts that are not Christlike. Self-discipline includes choosing words that are seasoned with love.

Whoever things are pure is to see people through the eyes of Christ. We must put into practice moral virtue, to understand how Jesus lived his life, as a perfect example of virtue. Jesus was the first liberator of women, always respecting their positions in life and giving them honor, and restoring their faith without question.

Whatever things are lovely is to find the beauty that God sees in every area of creation, especially human beings, because we are made in his image.

Whatever things are of good report is to share the Good News of the Word of God. To encourage those who are hurting with loving words. Do not attend pity parties, because the celebration is meant to bring you down too. You should instead become the friend that brings good news.

It does not matter how bad things may appear; if we learn to meditate on this passage, the circumstances will change for the better.

Purge yourself of all that is not of God; all negative things must go. Press through, and slowly the Holy Spirit will manifest. We must clear our minds to make room for God. It is there where He will meet you. Go into the Holy of Holies in your prayer closet. What do I mean by this? In the Old Testament only the Jewish high priests were allowed to enter the most holy place. When Jesus died on the Cross the curtains from the Holy of Holies were torn in two, and now we have access to these holy things.

Ask God to lead you there, and don’t stay in the outer courts, where you can only receive a partial blessing. Seek Him until you feel His holy presence.

This is a powerful experience, but it takes discipline and perseverance. This type of growth is developed when the Lord recognizes that you are ready to eat this holy meat.

Whenever the Lord opens a new door, the enemy is right there, to distract us from going further. It could be an argument with a loved one, an illness, or anything to take your eyes off God. Remember what Peter experienced when he took his eyes off God. Peter fell into the water, in a instant, a thought of distrust took him down, and yet he was an apostle. If Peter can be distracted where does that leave us?

29 So He said, “Come.” And when Peter had come down out of the boat, he walked on the water to go to Jesus. 30 But when he saw that the wind was boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink he cried out, saying, “Lord, save me!” Matthew 14:29-30 NKJ

This Valentine’s Day I pray for Jesus to fill your heart with the true love that is noble, just, pure and lovely…give your heart to Jesus, He will never break it!

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You Cannot Serve Two Gods

Every Democrat voted against Sen. Rand Paul’s amendment to end federal funding of Planned Parenthood, Sen. Paul explains that Plan Parenthood’s abortion business “ends the lives of 320,000 babies every year. That’s about 900 babies every day.” (Article from the Washington Examiner, April 23, 2018)

Our beautiful grandson Wil born a preemie, fighting for his life
Our perfect Wil today

LifeSiteNews.com reported that Planned Parenthood received more than $543 million in fiscal year 2016-2017. The site added, “It is forbidden from spending that money directly on most abortions, but pro-lifers warn that subsidies earmarked for non-abortion purposes ultimately enable abortion groups to commit more abortions by freeing up money from their other revenue services. Duke University healthcare analyst Chris Conover estimates that taxpayers end up covering almost 25 percent of all abortion costs.”

With the recent action of the most vile Governor Cuomo from New York to make into law that you can murder a full term baby after delivery, the newborn is like a sacrifice unto the demons from Hell. How did this pass our closed eyes? How In God’s name did this monster get elected into office? And how many Catholics/Christians voted for him?

Clichés are a simple way to back out of uncomfortable conversation, like “To each his own.” But it’s the ignorance of not knowing the truth that will not only hurt you but also those around you. Abortion is a subject of which I have great personal passion. I always vote pro-life, and the rest I leave to God. There are very few Democratic politicians that are pro-life, but yet there are almost half of Catholics that support these politicians, and many Christians follow the same suit.

To God, there is nothing more appalling than a lukewarm Christian. Making the sign of the Cross and receiving Communion does not mean you serve God! What God asks of us is to defend the rights of the unborn, but many lukewarm Catholics are too caught up in defending the welfare of the poor, and being swayed by the liberal media. When will the Catholic Church wake up? We must realize that only if we are in unity can we battle these fiery darts that the enemy has so gently cozied into the spirits of these lethargic Catholics and Christians.

How can we unite if half of us are lost because some of the shepherds have lost their way? It is unfathomable to believe that some priests, bishops, and pastors are behind this effort. How can the lay people be led if the leaders are not sure of the right path? We are to be winning souls, but how can we if there is such division within our Church? How do these politicians get away with their sinful acts, and still attend Mass, and have the shameful audacity to take Communion? I am not God, but I almost guarantee that their sins are not absolved, because they go back and commit the same offenses against God.

This infuriates me to the point of taking issue with even the popular Cardinal Dolan, of New York. He refuses to excommunicate Governor Cuomo because of stipulations in canon law. Dear Cardinal Dolan, the canon law of the Catholic Church is not the Bible, and you did not properly represent your people; your actions make many question their faith, and the refusal to excommunicate Governor Cuomo misrepresents our Church’s core beliefs. Doesn’t the Catholic Church have enough problems already? Dear God help us!

Now I ask the 40% of Catholics that are supporting the dark side: If it is not about life and love, then what is your walk about? How do you pray knowing that you support this evil? How do you dismiss this heinous act and not make it a priority in your decision when it comes to voting?

I am a Catholic and will remain in my faith, and I will fight to the end to clean up our Church.

Yes, you can came back at me about President Trump, and calling out all his past and present sins, but please take into account that he is an outspoken pro-life president. To me that matters, because he has the interest of God in doing what is right.

I wrote and copyrighted this song a few years ago:

The Door

I still quite don’t understand

The mother of all nature cries out because she can

Who will hear the thunder of the voices not allowed to speak?

Who will rise up for all the strong, the young, and old, and weak?

They are all abandoned to the ways of not

What was good was soon to be forgot

They look the wrong direction seeking trust

Where can they turn in a world of lust?

Pound the doors of Heaven when you sin 

Then you go back and do it all again

What do people tell you when you look for good advice?

Does it really matter in this place unsupervised?

Oh the lost soul, the lost hope

Pound the doors of Heaven when you sin

Then you go back and do it all again

The innocent delight in the attention of the present light 

Who will hold you to it when you cannot even fight?

Pound the doors of Heaven when you sin

Then you go back and do it all again

In the world of plenty much is given to the lost

Who will they remember when looking in despair?

What a world we live in in need of great repair!

Pound the doors of Heaven when you sin

Then you go back and do it all again.

© Lynda Ciriza

 

 

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