We are five.

Brothers and Sisters

When our sister Jo comes into town, she makes sure that we all get together. Brother Mike lives in Banning, George lives in Palm Desert and Norma lives in Arizona. The desert is a perfect spot to meet. We never know how many of our nieces and nephews are going to make it to the gathering, but this time we were 22 total.

Las Casuelas

This Mexican restaurant is great for accommodating a large crowd. We ate, visited, and danced. I used to have pretty good dance moves, but something happened. It seems that I’ve been doing the same dance since I was in my teens! My rhythm has left and, as I sadly watch the videos of my uncoordinated dance moves, I laughed!

George

My brothers are the kindest men, and I love spending time with them. My sister-in-law Mary, George’s wife, is like our sister. To spend time with my niece Gina is an experience of love doubled with laughter. Her brother Robert is back in school, getting a degree in psychology with an emphasis on substance abuse.

Mike

Mike’s son Rong’s daughter has recently graduated from the University of Redlands and is currently working for the city. It was such a joy spending time and getting to know her better. Her brother Michael is a freshman in college and is also doing great.

My nephew Nick and Lee’s daughters are so grown; Maya is also in college and her sister Reina is a freshman in high school. Maya is a great golfer and played in the high school band; Reina is on her high school track team.

Jo

Jo is an amazing woman who knows how to bring unity to our family. She is one of the strongest women I know; she takes risks and can do anything she puts her mind to. Since Jo’s children were young, she has never traveled without them.

Jo’s youngest son, Rocky, and his wife Angela were in Las Vegas on a business trip and were the first to arrive. The following day Jo, her son Nick, and his daughter Sophie, along with Jo’s grandson Frankie arrived.

While Rocky and Angela stayed in Newport Beach, the rest of the clan stayed as our guests.

Norma

Norma is the hardest working woman I know, aside from her job at Canyon Winds, she also babysits her grandchildren.

Jo and I called Norma before the trip to inform her that she would be staying with us in the desert. Norma and cousin Nellie are besties, but since it was only going to be a day-and-a-half visit, we forced Norma to stay with us. Mike did not join us on the trip because he was not feeling well, so all three of us slept in the king-sized bed. It seemed so unfair that I was in the middle between them because Norma suffers from leg cramps and I sometimes need to use the restroom.

It was a nightmare because Norma had to get out of bed, besides I drank way too much water! Every time I got up I’d say, “You should have stayed with Nellie!” Besides that Norma was drinking all of our Margaritas! She was feeling no pain she did get a leg cramp and the drama that ensued was hilarious!

Growing Old

We are all getting up there in age, and some of us are pretty much falling apart. Since we were changing our coverage this year, both Mike and I had physicals. There are so many more prayers I need to add for myself. As much as I hate to take medications, it seems that is the only alternative. One of the medicines that was prescribed was spiking  my sugar, so now my primary doctor wanted to put me on a diabetes pill. After a consultation with another specialist, he took me off the meds to see if it brought down my glucose.

Truly I’m at the mercy of God and doing my part to lose more weight and exercise more. Since COVID I’ve lost almost 25 pounds, but apparently that’s not enough. So I’m back to cutting out what I love most: bread and tortillas. My favorite snack is  chips, especially Doritos. I know it’s so bad for your health, but I still love them. No more cookies either!

The Eye Ulcer

Jo got up extra early last Monday and was complaining about her eye. The entire day she was rubbing her left eye. As a result of her sleeping in her contacts she developed an ulcer. My neighbor is an optometrist so I called him. He advised us to put an antibiotic in her eye and asked, “Did she bring her glasses?” I answered, “No.”

I called my optometrist and made an appointment the following day. Turns out that Jo developed an eye ulcer, because she slept in her contacts. Her pain level was at at ten, and it has been a week since developing the ulcer and she is still in pain. To add insult to injury her right knee gave out, and now she struggling with walking. Lord help us, we’re falling apart!

My Prayer

Dear Lord, I pray for all of my siblings.  Keep us healthy until we meet again. I pray for Jo to have complete healing of her eye and knee. Lord, I pray for Mike and me for total healing. Please heal me so that I do not need to take any more medications. Amen .

I’m Back!

As an 18-year-old youth I was a registered Democrat. In my twenties the Peace and Freedom Party took hold of my young, pliable mind. My thoughts were deeply entrenched in the thoughts that liberated and freed my cerebral branches. I had a mind with God in the shadows, a mind on its own path. I was taking in anyone who would listen, not realizing back then that I had a gift to influence others with seeds of toxic ideologies that had taken hold of my soul. I believed in women’s rights and all that their agenda represented. No man was going to rule my life. This mind had only room for self; my views settled comfortably, and they controlled me. I was angry, but not really sure why.

“There is a way which seems right to man, but its end is the way of death.”  Proverbs 16:25

The Republican Party

As far as I was concerned the Republican Party was evil, hated minorities and only represented the rich. My jaded thoughts were steeped in my heart;  my entire family were registered Democrats; our thoughts were one; we ate the same manna laced with relativism. We had a picture of President Kennedy in our living room, he was our demigod.  Our mother loved him and taught us to respect and love our Commander in Chief. President Kennedy will always rate high in my heart.

Mothers Do Know Best

Our mother always had a political influence on me, and up to her dying day she exercised her right to vote. I loved and respected this lesson that she instilled in all of us. She was a patriot and always rooted for the underdog. I honored her dedication to always be heard.

The Transition

Imagine being part of the Peace and Freedom Party and then becoming a Born-Again Christian (I am now Catholic). This was a paradox and the two forces collided with only one winner. During these formative years at Biola University the Word of God was taking hold of my heart, and I could no longer be angry surrounded with so much peace. The growth in my beliefs superseded all, and nothing was more important than  pleasing God. My life was finally on track; this gradual but gentle change caused me to see things in a different light. Understanding the meaning of life, the purpose of why I was born, and how God chose Mike as my helpmate was part of His plan. As I surrendered my will to God, my mind was maturing to understandwhat was expected of me as a Christian.

President Trump

I voted for this man because I knew he would make changes. We may not all agree on the fast pace he is taking,  but, in reality, he only has four years to clean up the mess. In the usual manner I will continue to pray for God to guide President Trump in every decision.

Immigration

I pray for all undocumented immigrants who have been in our country for many years, the ones who are law-abiding, God-fearing good people. We need to protect them and develop a system that will help them to become citizens. I understand the protest, but what baffles is that they’re  flying  flags from their countries. Am I wrong to think that Americans like myself feel that this approach is not helping the matter? I can almost guarantee that these protests are organized by Americans, not undocumented individuals. Regardless of  our different opinions, immigration must be conducted in a humanitarian manner.